Reflections

Notes from our first year of retirement, travel, transition, faith, and the quiet work of paying attention.

The Case for Snake Skin Shoes

lady in jeans and snake skin shoes

Can we discuss the case for snake skin shoes? There is a well known poem that infers that when I…

When the Alarm Clock Stops: Do We Drift or Design?

Two coffee cups on a table on a deck. Used as the feature image in A Retirement Update from the Laundry Room Part One

October 3, 2025, Michael left for work for the last time. We had coffee on the deck and talked about…

Choosing Steadiness in this Season

Early spring eastern redbud

A First Sunday in Lent Reflection ~ Choosing Steadiness in this Season This time of year carries more brown and…

SKOL: The Discipline of Hope

A Minnesota Vikings emblem. Skol: The Discipline of Hope

Super Bowl Sunday. The day you gather with family and friends to watch the biggest sporting event of the year…

Let’s Focus on the Good Things

Let's Focus on the Good Things

Traveling back to Minnesota always gives us time to talk. Especially now, when there are no work calls or texts…

Word of the Year 2026 – Intentionality

Beautiful autumn trees are the backdrop to an essay on intentionality

In·ten·tion·al·i·ty /inˌten(t)SHəˈnalədē/ noun 1. the fact of being deliberate or purposive. the quality of mental states (e.g., thoughts, beliefs, desires,…

January 2026 is in the Books

January 2026 winter scene

January in the Upper Midwest is cold. It is the month we disappear into our homes, venturing out only when…

 Someone Really Needs to Dust This Place

A box of vintage Christmas baubles in an article called Someone really needs to dust this place

Someone Really Needs to Dust This Place While talking with a friend recently, I stopped mid sentence to sneeze. And…

On a Snowy Afternoon in Illinois

A man sledding with his grandson on a snowy day during an Illinois winter

I grew up on the prairie of southern Minnesota during what I sometimes call the “Ice Age”. This was a…

If you’ve found yourself in a similar season,  newly retired, reorienting, or simply learning to slow down, you’re welcome here.

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